Although flirting and chatting successfully in adult chat rooms can be a little daunting at first, it is definitely a skill that you can hone to perfection with practice. Here are some tips for adult chat site success.
Set the tone for the site
No-one likes to have their time wasted, so it's always best to be honest and up-front about what you're looking for on an adult chat site. To an extent this will depend on the nature of the site you're using. For example, if you're on a site that's set up to facilitate discreet, casual hook-ups purely for sex, then you can set the tone of your chat accordingly.
However, don't try to engage in a raunchy exchange with someone on a site that's more geared towards discussion on everyday issues or you'll quickly find your account is disabled!
It's not uncommon to experience a total blank when it comes to starting a conversation with a new online contact. It can be helpful to make a list of good ice breakers to have beside you, just in case you find yourself struggling for inspiration. Perhaps start the chat off by asking them (tongue in cheek), 'Do you come here often?' This gambit often raises a smile and helps both parties to relax.
Make them smile Flirting and chatting online should be fun, so crack a few jokes, let your personality shine through, and make people laugh. In an adult chat room you can be as risqué as you like, but avoid being massively crude; no-one wants a virtual date with a pervy sleaze.
Compliments Don't be afraid to give someone a compliment. Even if you don't have photos or a webcam picture to go on, you can still tell someone they're funny, intelligent, or that they really stand out from the crowd.
It's not out of order on adult chat sites to use more blatant come-on style compliments by saying exactly what you think; in fact it's almost to be expected. However, always stay respectful and make your comment the equivalent of a wolf-whistle, rather than a virtual grope!
Keep your information private
Even though online flirting and adult chat is fun, you should always keep your personal information private. Remember that in a virtual world, you never really know who you're talking to, so don't reveal the following information:
- your real name
- where you live
- where you work
- your mobile or home telephone numbers
- your personal financial information
- the places where you hang out regularly
This tip applies particularly to sites where married people can get together to conduct virtual 'affairs'. The last thing you want is for an irate spouse to arrive on your doorstep!
There's a knack to conducting online conversations in adult chat rooms. With a little practice and the help of these tips, you'll find yourself mastering the technique in no time!Share